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Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Family Tree Project Ideas For Kids

The past can hold a vast of wealth for many people today if they would only take the time to look into it and really take an interest. Unfortunately, many young people display a serious disconnect with their own history. Start working with children when they are younger on a family tree for kids so that they have that solid foundation early on.

This is a great activity to do with a child who is currently at the elementary school age. Aside from the fact that they are most likely to enjoy it, catching them at this age means the information will stick with them longer and in more detail. The average teenager or preteen is not as likely to take much interest as a younger child. If you struggle to get them to take an interest, chances are not good that they will retain much of it.

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The traditional scroll that many people use to keep track of their family tree is not going to get much enthusiasm out of a small child. This is something that you can be really creative with, however. Consider making the family tree a part of their bedroom and create a mural on one of the walls. This could even turn into an ongoing piece of artwork that grows the further into the project that you get.

Begin with the most relevant thing in your child's life, their own birth. Move onto the rest of the immediate family from there. Once you get their attention and interest in the project solidified, then start moving backwards through time, one person at a time. Be sure to try to add specific details, like something that person did or where they lived. Make the whole thing very personal for your child so that each new family member added has a special element to make him or her memorable.

It stands to reason that the further you dig into the history, you will likely have to start doing some additional research. There is no better way to keep your child engaged in the project. This becomes so much more than just another project, but actually more like a great adventure that you are taking together. What you end up learning will also be quite amazing.

If your child is old enough, you could use this as a way to study history, going backwards of course. The events that you study will take on a personal meaning when connected with the family. The impression that this leaves will be unbelievable.

Honestly this is a really perfect idea for a home schooled child, or a learning project to do over the summer. The number of directions that you could go with this are only limited by your imagination. Should you find an ancestor that was involved in bootlegging, you can use this information to find out about the entire Prohibition era, from the culture to the music, literature, and politics of the time.

Laying the groundwork for this learning is essential. While some families will have most of their information at their fingertips, others will have to do more digging. There is a real wealth that comes from exploring your own past, and the sooner your children learn it the better.

Family Tree Project Ideas For Kids

Want to learn more about how to trace your own family tree with your kids, then visit Sarah Brookhaven's genealogy site at www.Find-My-Family-Tree.com for a free genealogy mini-course. Also, check out her latest genealogy ebook, "The Ultimate Genealogy Guide," for indepth information about discovering your own family history.

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Friday, January 6, 2012

Family, The Most Important Thing In Life

I went to a funeral yesterday. It was the funeral of a 97 year old lady who I had befriended in her last year of life, to take her out for a 'much-needed breath of fresh air', being somebody who was confined to her small home and unable to go out unless in a wheelchair. There weren't a lot of people at the funeral, just family. I was an 'outsider', only having briefly met one of them who had invited me to the funeral.

I quickly learned that, apart from nearest family, some of them had not seen each other for many years. Isn't it always the case, that relations rarely meet unless at weddings and funerals? The deceased did not see many of them. She was a deeply lonely lady, craving company like she'd had when young. Although crippled, her mind was as active as a 20 year old. It's often at funerals we rekindle family relationships, with every intention of meeting up more often, but for some reason we slip back into old habits, caught up with work and play, and do not fulfil those promises, even though they're promises made from the heart, and with the best intentions.

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So what happens? Recently, Prince Andrew was reported as saying "I believe fundamentally that the family is the most important thing in life". And this belief probably holds true for most people, but like the diet we have every intention on going on, or the cigarettes we have every intention on giving up, we just don't get around to it, often until it's too late. It's the same with family and children. Do we grab the moment now, savor our time with our children, or wait until they've grown up and are caught up in their own lives? I know this is easier said than done, but often, however tight we are for time, most people are willing and able to make time for things that matter to them. There are people who have passions in life, be it water sports or model trains, who will make time whatever to pursue those passions.

So, given that we are so caught up in work, DIY, housework, and life, how do we make time for the family?

1. Strong families make it a priority to spend time together, and are committed to each other. This does not have to mean organizing great days out, but doing everyday tasks such as running errands, household chores or playing games together. Have a notice board in a prominent place in your home, with a daily REMINDER that your family comes first. This may seem crazy, but our hectic lifestyles with work and school mean we can frequently forget to take time out and work on our family relationships.

2. Ask yourself, why am I so busy? What am I doing, and is it helping to strengthen our family, or causing us to be apart more often? Is what I am doing really worth it? You may find that, when you stop and think about it, there may be activities you can cut out, or you may find ways of managing your time more effectively.

3. Some of those issues that have been important to you, on reflection, you may be able to re-prioritize. For example, household chores, like cleaning, or not allowing your kids to do 'messy' activities like painting or cooking. Being less fastidious about such issues may unlock time for being together and having fun.

4. Is your child attending lots of after-school clubs? Some parents like to feel that their child is constantly occupied and gaining new interests, and this is great, if that is what they are really doing. If a child loves doing many activities, that is good, but some children like to have time-out to relax at home, and often, following one or two interests or hobbies allows them to appreciate and put more time into them than to cram lots of interests into their routine.

5. Switch the television off. Make space to talk to each other. It may be a nice activity to watch a program together, but generally watching TV is not a social activity. In fact, more often than not, it gets in the way of social interaction.

6. Aim to have at least one meal a day together as a family. This is a difficult one if you have teenagers who have an active social life of their own, but however possible, make sure everyone gets together to talk about their day, share ideas, thoughts and feelings. It may require a change in mealtimes to accommodate everyone, or a new 'number one rule of the house'.

7. Try to establish something your whole family enjoys doing together, like a hobby, or a form of exercise, cycling or hiking. This can give a common interest that all can enjoy together and talk about. If you've got a difficult teenager, then find his or her motivation, and organise some days and activities for the whole family around that.

As parents you are the 'figureheads' of the family, so the responsibility is yours to bring the family together. Doing so will bring you closer, help you to enjoy your family, and hopefully give your children some great memories as well as examples to follow when they are grown up and have children of their own!

Family, The Most Important Thing In Life

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